I hired a male escort - Sept 14,2008
Posted by Annalise on Dec 14, 2008
http://www.perb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=92976 <<– the whole thread located here !!
Well that was amazing !!
I ran to the corner to get wine, both red and white because I didnt ask him what his preference was. Changed my sheets, and hopped into a bath. As I’m straightening my hair, he calls saying he is here, 10 minutes early. Well I’m a girl and no way am I ready 10 mins early, so I ask him to wait for 5 mins before he rings my buzzer. On the nose, he’s at my door !!
Standing there, peering out the peep hole of my door stands a black man. Now I’ve had black men in my past, they are both sensual and sexual. I found this man on craiglist, as I was viewing ads this morning. He is 25 years old, with a day job, from Montreal. His accent was sexy, but sometimes hard to understand. I let him in to my place, he took off his shoes and socks at the door. I offered him wine, asking his preference, he said Red - good choice I thought. Without a bag in hand, I ask him if he brought massage oil/lotion, he answered, “that is for you to provide” ….ummmm I thought, not very professional. I suggested to him, it might be wise for him to bring the supplies required: Oil, lotion, condoms, lube !!
Poured him a glass of wine, he came up behind me to kiss my neck, and rub his hands over my hips, we then sat on my couch for a bit of conversation. Well he didn’t take any time to greet me with warm kisses, and a soft touch. Opening my robe to reveal my panties, and going down to smell, lick and suck them until I was moaning. I pushed him off, saying “I’m not sure I want fs, but a sensual full body massage.” He understood, and sat back on the couch. A few more sips, and I was ready for my massage.
I brought in a towel, and showed him the massage oil. I took off my robe, and layed on my tummy. He poured oil all over my back and legs. Rubbing me everywhere. Using his tongue on my ass, and pussy, even along my spin all the way up to my neck. Arching as he’s licking me, moaning and smiling, this was amazing. He turned me over, to rub my front, soft, sexy and ever so sensual. Moving my feet into his ‘man’. We repeated this twice.
On my back now, he starts fingering me, playing gently with my clit, and sliding his fingers into me. Oh lets not forget, sucking on my nipples. I then asked him to put the condom on that was beside the bed (I supplied) he placed himself inside me, but ever so slowly, as I rubbed my clit. There was very little motion from both of us. More of a slow, soft sexual experience. I exploded within minutes, and he came straight after.
Fucking amazing !!
We had some conversation, and he left 10 mins after.
I ran a bubble bath, finished my glass of wine, now I’m ready for bed. I feel so relaxed, taken care of and ready for a new week.
would I repeat ?? Probably, but not often.
Vaniety is a funny thing…
Posted by Annalise on Aug 14, 2008
Well here is my official announcement that I under went surgery at the beginning of June. Some call what I did a Mommy tuck, others call it a body lift, and doctors it called a tummy tuck. While the surgeon did a great job in ridding my body of the tummy I had, it didn’t completely do what I expected. Before going under the knife, in my consciousness I just wanted the part of my tummy that was gross to be gone. Well truth be told after the fact I was expecting my tummy to be flatter than before child. That didn’t happen, I still have a tummy, and I’m unclear about my feelings towards this outcome. Its been two months and threw the healing I started to recognize that I was subconsciously expecting so much more from this intrusive surgery to make my tummy perfect.
I’ve consulted 2 other doctors on what exactly is going on with my swollen tummy. They have advised me that in fact the scar is beautiful (I don’t disagree with this) the swelling could take up to 5-7 months to reduce to normality. Their impressed with the work the surgeon did, and tell me to be patient with the end results. ~meh~ Who spends an exorbitant amount money on a procedure to be told the end results will take half a year ????
My skin is tighter, my hips are sexy, my rib cage is showing, so why am I frustrated with the outcome ??? Because somewhere in my pea head I truly thought my tummy would turn out looking like pre-baby. Sooo flat that ‘dates’ could bounce quarters off of it. A tummy that I could wear a bikini again, and feel amazingly sexy walking around the beach or pool and have men/woman say …”she sure looks good for her age” - well no bikini for me.
There is nothing to say in 6 months these results wont happen, but I’ve seen pictures of post-Mommy lifts that have given a woman these results. Patience they say ~meh~
My clothes look amazing on me - my side profile is better than it was - so why am I whining ? PERFECTION - I like most woman want perfection. Their is a reason woman/men get obsessed with their looks. Their is a reason why humans choose to go under the knife for their ideal look. We can’t fight genetics, we can’t fight societies expectations of perfection. Some woman are naturally slender, some are naturally thick etc. Age plays are large factor, and fighting age with a surgeon can be self-sabotage for ones self confidence.
Botox, eye lifts, products marketed directly to aging adults. We abuse our bodies threw our youth, and expect the doctors or lotions and potions to fix our reckless behaviours as time takes over and our bounce back factor is gone. Vanity is a funny thing, at what point do we realize that time has creeped up on us and their is little we can do to turn the clock back. Maybe we can slow down the clock, but at some point that clock with start spinning out of control and speed up so fast that nothing we can do will stop aging. SOMEONE STOP THE CLOCK !!
Sharing
Posted by Annalise on Jul 31, 2008
I found this thread on perb to be bang on, so I’m sharing it with the rest of you. Please enjoy !!
http://perb.ca/vbulletin/showpost.php?p=765251&postcount=20
So having provided the disclaimer that you can’t believe what anyone says, here are my answers:
The first step in preparing is to figure out what I am in the mood for. There are many variables. Price, location, services sought, required physical characteristics, willingness to wear outfits etc.
Sometimes I am just in the mood for a nice R&T (rub and tug, which is a massage - often a very short one, followed by a hand job) while other times I am looking for full blown, down and dirty GFE. I’m not really into PSE. To understand what people say here you are going to need to “bone” up on the domain-specific acronyms. There is a thread with that in her somewhere or you can check urbandictionary.com.
And then I try to match what I am seeking against what I know is available.
And the way I know what is available is by maintaining a database of information (some of it in my head, some as a list of links to escort websites, some in other computer applications, galleries of picturies downloaded from Craigslist etc.) And to produce that I regularly monitor the boards (reviews, ads, back channel PMs, chatting with SPs and pooners in the chatrooms etc.), Craigslist, various local papers with escort ads etc.
Sometimes I want to repeat with an escort I have enjoyed before. Sometimes I go by something I read about someone I don’t know - generally a review by someone with a substantial record of posting what appear to be reliable reviews. And sometimes I want to go where know one has reported from before (the TOFTT - Taking One For The Team)
Then I start making calls, PMs, emails etc. Many of the “higher class” escorts require booking with a fair bit of notice (hours to days depending on their popularity, seasonal factors, how often they provide services, their “time of the month”, whether they are taking classes/exams, their regular lives etc.)
One key for many of us who have SOs (significant others) is not getting caught. So we don’t use our home phones or our business or personal email etc. There are a variety of ways to buy phones without providing id or credit card info. And that way you don’t need to block your number to protect your identity. Many escorts won’t pick up calls from blocked numbers, because these people are often time-wasters and also because they think that by knowing the number there is an element of safety in case things go bad (which isn’t really the case with untraceable phones). As for getting a separate email account for the hobby, you can get any number you like from hotmail, gmail, yahoo etc. You can have a different email for each different SP you visit if you want
So you go through your list via whatever methods the SPs provide their information for. Some only provide their phone number, some have contact info on their website, some give you MSN addresses and some have you respond to a Craigslist ad-specific email address.
So you try to make contact - and in many cases you come up dry. Full voice mailbox, no answer for days, number no longer in service etc.
So you finally reach a live one. This part can be delicate. If you are serious (and not trying to get some kicks for whacking off or to impress your 12 year old buddies listening in on the speakerphone), then the first thing to do is to confirm that you are talking to the escort (or whoever does their booking). So you ask if this is Julie or whatever her name is or you say “I saw your Craigslist ad” and when they say yes you continue. And while you are doing this you are interpreting how they sound. Do they sound like they would be fun, do they sound sleepy, are they slurring their words, do you hear gunfire in the background (hopefully just a western on TV) etc.
There are a few basic questions: matching their availability and yours, price for particular service for particular time, location (you may want to know a more specific location than Surrey or downtown because of parking, bad neighbourhood, good transit etc.)
You may have specific wishes like them dressing as a secretary with red high heels. This is your fantasy - if you want it and can pay for it, then go for it! Or just arrange a blo ‘n go.
So you get the info and you arrange to meet. Let’s assume it is you going to see her, which is called incall. The higher class escort will probably ask you to give a confirmation call a certain amount of time before the appointment. This is so that she knows you are probably serious, that she should prepare and so that she does not give her location away to every Tom, Dick and Hairy that arranges something and then for whatever reason never shows up. She may even say at this point that you should be at the Chevron station at such and such intersection 5 minutes before the appointment so she can check you out from her apartment window, just in case you might be a stalker, ex-husband, her butcher etc.
So the arrangements are made. You eat something with protein, some carbs. not too heavy. You want to be able to perform well. If you need the help you pop a Vitamin V,”C” etc.
You brush your teeth at least an hour in advance. You cut your fingernails - maybe she will let you finger her. You do your toilet duties. Give yourself an enema if she will use a strap-on on you. You shower - wash the naughty and stinky parts a few extra times. Spray some cologne on, gargle with mouthwash. Find clean underwear - search around in your closet - well this is pretty clean. Get dressed.
Check that you have everything before leaving. cell phone, her address & phone number, enough money, an envelope to put the donation in, maybe a bottle of wine or small gift to impress her (you’re dreaming here but we do that). Oh and just in case, you take some backup phone numbers of other ladies who might be available as a fallback plan.
You drive to her location. Various rigmarole to get the address, buzzer number, suite number and you are finally at her door at the appointed hour. Don’t be early, don’t be late by much (without calling to let her know).
You knock, the door opens and there is no one there. If this is your first time, you think WTF! She says “come in sweetie” and you realize she is standing behind the door.
This is tricky. If you walk in, then the odds are that unless she is a mutant with many bleeding sores you are going to pay her the money and stay. That is because all of your blood is in your southerly regions and your brain is barely functioning. That is why reviews are so valuable (from trusted sources) and why you pray like hell you aren’t the victim of a “bait and switch”.
So you walk in.
And that is where I am leaving the “story” tonight.
I’m sure I have forgotten some things and that everyone will jump all over this with their 2 cents. Should be fun!